One way in and no way out
All must pass through My gates.
Apply to serve Me
This is your first impression.
Introductory Call
To ensure we are an excellent fit.
Your first session with Me
Your initiation into My world.
My Protocol
I am a professional Domina, this is My temple and My workplace. Be respectful. Be intentional. Be forthcoming. Be discreet. I caution you against becoming overly familiar. You may address Me as Mistress, Ma’am, or simply Sadisa. I may approve other deferential titles that allow you to sink lower and deeper. When in doubt, ask for permission.
I love this work. My sessions can be deeply sensual and erotic, yet I do not offer sex. I may allow select forms of body worship. That is a privilege, not an expectation.
You will appreciate My clear rules, explicit expectations, and practical protocol. If instructions are unclear you are encouraged to ask.
How do I begin?
Complete the application form on the Apply page. Only thoughtful applications receive a reply. Accepted applicants are invited to a paid introductory call to ensure we are an excellent fit. If I bring you into My world, in the flesh, you begin with the 2-hour initiation.
What are Your rates?
Sessions begin at $500 per hour with a two-hour minimum for first-time sessions. Exact investment is discussed after acceptance. There is a location fee (at cost). Couples and Guest Stars: Depending on the level of engagement, there are fees for couples, playmates (bulls, bi) or additional Dominas. Please inquire.
Do You require screening?
Yes, for in-person scenes. An introductory paid call and ID verification are required for in-person sessions. I ask you to hold up your ID to the camera. This is complemented with one of the following: Professional presence or LinkedIn with >500 connections, Domina reference, a verified Fetlife account with some activity. If N/A, you will need a paid in-person public meet at My convenience. Your privacy is a priority, but My safety is paramount.
Where do scenes take place?
Being a globally-based Domina, I do not have My own dungeon nor do I dominate out of My personal residences. Options include hotels, day-use hotels, vacation rentals, dungeon rentals (where available). I have My shortlist and welcome your preferences, as different settings lend themselves to different scenes and desires. You will provide Me with the payment. I will book. Virtual is on the menu, and it is delicious. I am willing to travel beyond My region if My interest is piqued. You cover travel costs. Inquire to discuss the possibilities.
Is Sadisa on social media?
No. Although recommendations are appreciated, I value privacy and discretion - for both Myself and for you. I do not participate in social media. I treat your identity as a precious secret. If you desire exhibitionism or photojournalistic memories of your experiences with Me, we can discuss that for future sessions. I am on kinky and sacred sensuality sites like Fetlife, Sacred Eros, Sensuali, Tryst, Reddit, etc. You will *not* find the real Sadisa on Twitter/X, Instagram, Tiktok, Facebook, OnlyFans, other content-for-sale sites.
Deposits & Tributes
A non-refundable 30% deposit is required at the time of booking. The balance will be delivered at the start of the session. Virtual sessions tributes sent in full at time of booking. Deposits may be sent via Cashapp to $THANKYOUSADISA or Venmo @The-Altar (private, friends & family, #4431). All other tributes may be made in cash (preferred) or via Cashapp or Venmo. You may split amongst methods. Please inquire if you have a need for an alternate method. Tributes, gratitudes, affections and the like are noticed and appreciated: Throne @Sadisa.
Tardiness, Rescheduling & Cancellations
Be on time. If you are late, you’ve cannibalized your session time. Be respectful and give Me notice. In-person sessions must be rescheduled at least 48 hrs in advance, which allows you to transfer your deposit to a new appointment within the month. You may reschedule once. If I am unable to reschedule because of limited availability whilst touring, your deposit will remain with Me as a courtesy. For timely cancellations, your deposit remains with Me as a courtesy. For last-minute cancellations, attempts to reschedule less than 48 hrs in advance, or no-shows, your deposit remains with Me and you must pay for the session in full before having the possibility to book with Me again. I am not a tyrant. If there is a genuine emergency – and I believe you – I will grant you grace.
Your Step-by-step Descent Down The Rabbit Hole:
1) Submission to serve Sadisa If responses are sufficient and intriguing, then… 2) Book Introductory Video Call - Send Sadisa 2-3 windows of time where you have a peaceful and private 20 minutes - Send payment via Cashapp to $THANKYOUSADISA or Venmo @The-Altar (private, friends & family, #4431) (currently $50, 20 min) If payment is received, then… 3) Introductory Call confirmed and calendar invitation sent 4) Introductory Call occurs - Introductions, casual Q&A - ID verification - hold ID up to camera so I can verify identity (for in-person engagements) - One of the following: Professional site, LinkedIn with >500 connections, Domina reference, a verified Fetlife account with some activity. If N/A, you will need a paid in-person public meet at My convenience. If there is mutual desire to proceed, then… 5) Book Initial Session - Send Sadisa 2-3 windows of time for a 2 hour session in order of preference (give yourself adequate preparation and decompression time) - Send Sadisa the local site preferences (if any). Otherwise, Sadisa’s choice - Send payment via Cashapp to $THANKYOUSADISA or Venmo @The-Altar (private, friends & family, #4431) - Non-refundable deposit 30% (current initial session rate is $500/hr, 2 hr) - Additional participant/extra Domme fees - Location fee (determined by selection) - Travel fee (if any) - The balance is to be paid at the start of the session. Cash preferred. Alternatively: Cashapp, Venmo or inquire for additional options. If payment is received, then… 6) Initial Session confirmed, site booked, calendar invitation sent, and pre-session instructions 7) Prepare for Session - Complete Pre-Session Intake Forms (erotic/BDSM preferences, health waivers) - Sadisa’s check-in messages and final confirmation 8) Arrive at First Session - Arrive on time - Arrive clean and with good hygiene - Arrive rested, well-hydrated, lightly fed, and sober - Come discretely, in street clothes (you may bring your preferred fetishwear but it is not necessary or expected) Then, the fun begins…